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Guys: Stereotypes Aren't Always True Conventional wisdom says that, for guys in their early teens, relationships are mainly about physical attraction.
Our survey showed that this "conventional wisdom" doesn't mean all guys fall into this mold. First, we saw that it's not just younger guys who go mainly for the way someone looks or their physical attributes: We had a few older guys say they were most interested in looks. And most of the year-old guys in our survey say they appreciate a person's inner qualities, like kindness and intelligence.
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